And I would like to take this opportunity to welcome you to No Feart CIC.
This company has been set up to provide education and recovery to men, women and children who have experienced any kind of abuse or trauma in any setting in their life. Wether that be in an organisation, institution, domestic relationship, human trafficking, discrimination or child abuse.
We actively work with victims and perpetrators of abuse online or in the community.
We aim to guide people along a path of recovery using a variety of methods ranging from educational videos with Q+A's at the end of them, through to one-to-one sessions with a certified counsellor if required.
Our community work is subject to funding.
Programs can be purchased here and done online and in your own time.
Zoom groups can be booked and arranged in advance throughout the year.
See other services for consultations and more programs.
My own experience of childhood abuse, and the subsequent trauma it caused me, is the driving force behind what it is that I do. I reach out to the people in my community, and beyond, in a bid to assist as many as possible in living more fulfilling lives.
I witnessed my dad kill my mother when I was a young girl. An unspeakable horror that I imagine few people could forgive. But I recognised that in order for me to heal, and to break the cycle of generational abuse and trauma, I would need to understand what drove him to commit that act. I also recognise that forgiveness is something that I do for me. Forgiveness doesn't tell him that what he did is okay. The energy of hatred has no place in my body. It is a dis-ease that doesn't serve me. Together with my sister, I reconciled safely with my father twenty-eight years later. I got to know a troubled man who realised that he needed help but never knew where to look for it throughout his life. Nor did he know whom to ask for assistance.
My father was an abused child who experienced trauma. And while his is an extreme example of the damage we do to ourselves and others, I have made it my life's mission to find out more about the emotional and psychological contributing factors that caused him to behave in the manner that he did. I've needed to know what more could have been done to help him battle his demons in order that he could have led a more compassionate life. I use all of the knowledge I've gained to help other men, women and teens to break free from behaviour patterns that do not serve them, and which prevent them from leading fuller lives free from anger and depression and resentment, whether they are victims, perpetrators, or often both like my father was.
Today, thirty-nine years later, I see so many broken systems, and not only in relation to ourselves, our families, and our loved ones. These broken systems are everywhere: institutions, homes, workplaces, community and religious settings, organisations, and more. The types of abuse I cover in the courses offered here extend to financial abuse, sexual coercion, human trafficking, bullying, child abuse, and much more.
Recovering from abuse isn't easy, it demands that we be courageous.
We are made to be this brave!